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My current psychiatrist is ass so I reached out to my last one I only stopped seeing 2 yrs ago bc I started PHP and she assumed they would have one (they didn’t, I ended up waiting 6 months to find any current). FYI I’m 22 and live by myself. I’m pissed.
48 upvotes, 3 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Neurodivergent. "My current psychiatrist is ass so I reached out to my last one I only stopped seeing 2 yrs ago bc I started PHP and she assumed they would have one (they didn’t, I ended up waiting 6 months to find any current). FYI I’m 22 and live by myself. I’m pissed."
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Anonymous 6d

Honestly I’m kind of pissed not just bc of the implication that I can’t make my own medical decisions (my mom literally wouldn’t know what to look for in a psychiatrist anyways), but also no explanation as to why she can’t take me back as a patient. Typically if someone doesn’t have space they’ll just tell you. And “enjoying college” is a stretch bc last she knew I should’ve graduated by now. Am I crazy or is that message insanely condescending?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Well if it’s been two years since you last went to that therapist and your mom used to be involved in the process then I don’t think it’s insane for her to assume that she still was involved. How was she supposed to know that your mom isn’t involved if it’s been two years?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

She was involved (as in coordinating payment) when I was a minor. I’ve been paying for years, even before I switched over to a different psychiatrist

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