I feel like if they’re only fronting every couple months for only a few days to a few hours then they shouldn’t be allowed to make life changing decisions like dropping out of their college classes or changing their major when the ones who do front for weeks to months at a time have more or less agreed on their major, minus a few outliers who want to do something else, which we’ve agreed are things they could also do as hobbies or side gigs, or keep as back up options

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i think it’s something you can bring up as a concern you have and your reasons (which i also agree with what you’d presented) and not an “order” to not let the alters do that. maybe encourage more system communication and if they’re seeing a therapist about this, ask them to try to help facilitate this with the professional. or to seek community with other pluralities

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