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Might be the wrong place to ask this but does anyone else like the feeling of being tied up? (In a non sexual way (or sexually))
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Anonymous 3w

Yes, and I feel like it overlaps with the general concept of enjoying deep pressure and a sense of security! Being wrapped in bedding, liking to rest in small dark spaces, comfort vests for nervous animals. Weighted blankets. Different levels of shibari, latex suits.. Deep pressure is just universally comforting. A lot of neurodivergent people have kinks such as being bound or gagged or restrained for that exact reason

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Anonymous 3w

yes, but i don’t recommend if you don’t trust the person. i’ve broken someone’s rly cheap handcuffs bc he was freaking me out lmfao

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Anonymous 3w

I’ve never considered that my affinity for rope might be connected to my neurodivergence. Fascinating

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Anonymous 3w

I never been tied up so I wouldn’t know but I do like tight spaces.

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Anonymous 3w

Like I have and aot cosplay that has the harness odm gear stuff and it’s just so fun to wear Lowkey wish I had more opportunities to wear it

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Anonymous 3w

Straight up wanna feel like i'm buried when im sleeping. 3 weighted blankets in the darkest room known to man. Waking up like dracula every morning

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Anonymous 3w

I think it’s partially the pressure thing, but for me it’s also the loss of control. I can’t overthink what I’m doing if I can’t move, and handing responsibility for myself over to someone else I trust is kinda freeing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Yeah def not a good idea unless you’re comfortable with them lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah I felt the same way about being tied up, as well as it being someone I trust that is tying me up!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i thought i did😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Also doing that thing where you're sleeping on long car rides where you put your hands and wrists under the seatbelt to add a little pressure to your body.

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