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Neurodivergent 5w
Did you guys ever have a friend or friends that constantly disrespected you in public but was nice when it was just the 2 of you, I want to see if this is comin in the neurodivergent community, I’m also autism so it’s hard to read disrespect right the and
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Anonymous 5w

There which makes it hard to stand up to it? But have yall ever had friends like this and what happened when yall stood for yallselves

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Anonymous 5w

lmao yes but i still hangout with them because im a lonely bitch

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Anonymous 5w

My friend does the opposite, he talks civil to everyone else but to me ,ONLY in private he calls me all kinds of offensive profanities. I know that’s how some people just joke around with their close friends but I think I’m going to stop being his friend bc it’s rubbing off on me and I catch myself saying distasteful things that I wouldn’t normally say..

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Anonymous 5w

My friends just trash me, in HS they said I was the sponge because I just absorbed all the hate but I was just a traumatized individual with zero fucks to give nothing changed except my tolerance for disrespect just throw direct oblivious communication in response. Pretend like you care with naive curiosity. Then just point them at themself

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Anonymous 5w

YES my ex bsf did this!! she treated me like i was her pet

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Anonymous 5w

This was SO many people for me

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Anonymous 5w

maybe i can give you an insight bc im unfortunately someone who acts like this (trying to change it!!!). for me, that behavior is a result of making people dislike me so they don’t become friends with me & then leave me later on. or just generally keeping ppl at a distance so they can’t hurt me / i can’t hurt them. there’s also a part of me that thinks that being nice is embarrassing, which is hard to work out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I’d say give him a chance to be stopped but you cut him off, talk to him about it and if he doesn’t stop then dip.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Before*

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

but yeah i’m not saying that to like, defend the behavior or anything - it’s a very fucked up to thing to do and can’t be justified. i’ve gotten a lot better at it over the years and i don’t think im That Guy anymore but maybe that can help understand why someone might behave that way. xx ppl who disrespect you are not worthy of ur time or deserving of ur attention and empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

If someone in public rubs me the wrong way I do attempt to give them the worst interaction of their year

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I shit u not one of the people in that friend group called me a pet but it was quick

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

neurotypical people r so weird bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I lowkey get evrything you said and I’m the same I keep people at bay, weird enough that was one of my disrespectful friend issue with me, he started ignoring for this but I never came back, I just accepted it because u this upset over that but u can’t even respect me, ya stay away ur right..

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

And then Turn around and make sure u feel like the weird one smh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

FRRR LIKE IM SORRY IM FULL OF WHIMSY AND JOY LIKE FUCK OFF

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