Anonymous #2 10h

Try your hardest with what you can to get a task completed or else people will be frequently irritated with your show of learned helplessness

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Anonymous OP 10h

See this is where having caregiver services is helpful.

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Anonymous #2 10h

well i’m not talking about those that need an extra hand 24/7. Some of y’all be high functioning and don’t want to take responsibility for ANYTHING which pisses me off cause it’s a mental disability yes, but if someone asks you to get ready for an event planned, GET READY

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Anonymous #3 8h

this for the ones that don’t even start. Already saying “I can’t do it (Haven’t started) because blah blah blah” No one’s gonna give you a cane for adhd my friend, life is difficult but you have to force yourself to overcome or else you’ll be left behind. (From experience)

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Anonymous OP 8h

I mean I get what you’re saying but I feel like asking for help is not the end of the world. If you’re relying on other people to the point you’re incapable of doing things yourself when you don’t need to be then that’s a problem. But there’s nothing wrong with needing help with some things. Also like the cane for adhd is just meds and I absolutely need it and it was totally just given to me by my psychiatrist.

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Anonymous #3 8h

Like overall I get your point but I feel like this is almost swinging too far in the other direction yk?

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Anonymous #3 5h

It’s a hard conversation that my friends and I constantly have because they think it’s an attack on them when in reality it’s just taking accountability

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Anonymous #3 5h

also idk what ur talking about “it’s ok to ask for help” ❓when did I ever say it wasn’t😭? You’re completely misinterpreting what I’m trying to say I’m EVAPORATING ain’t nobody mentioned those people like at all

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