am i wrong to be upset when plans are brought up the same day and i say no. my partners friends always want to hang out which is fine but it is always day of and only hours before they want to do whatever. i find it hard to be okay with plans and
feel bad always saying no but we still hang out on the weekends regardless, i try to be okay and i am usually by the time we are done
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Anonymous18h
i literally hate it. i feel bad when my friends wanna be spontaneous and ask me to hang out even one day in advance (esp if ive been busy all week and thats my one day im not busy) so i feel you
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Anonymous14h
nah not wrong!!! having plans sprung on you without any warning sucks