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Neurodivergent 1d
is it an ND thing to be so weirdly stubborn about stupid things? whenever someone suggests that i do something, even if it’s a good idea and good for me, i immediately just don’t want to do it. because someone said i should. and now it’s embarrassing
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Anonymous 1d

Oh yea that’s oppositional defiant disorder I think. It’s a symptom of a couple neurodivergencies

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Anonymous 1d

Yes. Idk which conditions specifically but I have ADHD and BPD, and I remember when I was younger I would be on my way to do a chore, but the second a parent said I should do that chore I didn’t want to anymore and I’d get very upset.

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Anonymous 1d

i have pathological demand avoidance but i don’t think it’s very talked about

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Anonymous 1d
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Anonymous 1d

I don’t know why but I thought ND stood for North Dakota not Neurodivergent 😭😭 sitting here wondering what North Dakota had anything to do with this

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Anonymous 1d

I read this as North Dakotan at first

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Anonymous 1d

idk but same

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Anonymous 1d

That’s called “negative first response”

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Anonymous 1d

Sounds like OCD.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I never knew there was a specific term for this, thanks! I see now that it goes hand in hand with ADHD so that adds up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yea of course!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Can you have ODD and not be ND? Or does ODD fall under the ND umbrella?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

ODD is ND but I would like to caution ODD is very rarely diagnosed and is ALOT of resistance even when the person with it understands whatever they have to do is beneficial, to the detriment of their own life from their angry/frustrated outbursts. It’s a totally normal thing to have and if it is more severe than you observe most other people and you have something like autism or adhd— you’re more likely to have PDA or pathological demand avoidance

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

My dad is very back and forth on whether or not he thinks I have adhd or autism (undiagnosed for both) but he's like so convinced I have ODD so it's kinda funny to find out he still thinks I'm ND and probably doesn't even realize it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Oh shit I think I was mixing PDA and ODD up actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I kinda don’t know the difference lowkey sorry😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Nah, them North Dakotans are stubborn as hell (I've never been there this is a joke)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I live there and yes they are, but they’re also passive aggressive af

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Anonymous replying to -> bluecat 1d

Me too

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Omg what part I lived in minot

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Anonymous replying to -> bluecat 1d

In a small town out of Grand Forks

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