
For me, I think it was about realizing my relationship with love was an unhealthy fixation I had. Like if I’m gonna treat every relationship like an alcoholic and get lost in it, then I wasn’t really loving a person, I was in love with the idea and feelings of being in love. At that point you gotta figure out a healthier relationship with yourself. Being infatuated with someone isn’t being a good partner despite the butterflies it gives you.