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How do you guys get yourselves to stop caring about love? It’s gotten so bad that whenever I make the mistake of letting myself have feelings for them, I have to emotionally abuse myself to stop myself from making a move which I know will fail.
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Anonymous 18h

For me, I think it was about realizing my relationship with love was an unhealthy fixation I had. Like if I’m gonna treat every relationship like an alcoholic and get lost in it, then I wasn’t really loving a person, I was in love with the idea and feelings of being in love. At that point you gotta figure out a healthier relationship with yourself. Being infatuated with someone isn’t being a good partner despite the butterflies it gives you.

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