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Neurodivergent 6d
Did anyone else grow up in a chaotic household and never really learned how to deep clean + overall hygiene? How did you learn? One of my fave feminine hygiene YouTubers is Chloe Yazmean but I also really wanna work on my overall cleanliness/organization
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Anonymous 6d

by surrounding myself with people who grew up in more stable households and had good hygeine. it allowed me to body double in a way. its like watching a youtube hygeine routine irl. the

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Anonymous 6d

i just had to wing it tbh

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Anonymous 6d

i approached my friend who was very good at those things and asked for help. strengthened our friendship and i learned a lot of great things!

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Anonymous 5d

Watching skincare and self-care routines. Helped me body-double too

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Anonymous 6d

wings 🪽 i have angels, i do it for the girls and the gays that’s it.

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Anonymous 5d

with things like adhd, it’s best to be very careful about medications in these matters.

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Anonymous 6d

By working as a janitor for a summer

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Anonymous 5d

Thought that said Catholic household for a hot second and was wondering why being Catholic would mean you didn’t know how to clean 😭

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Anonymous 6d

Offended because I'm right? Go cry about it.

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Anonymous 6d

Its a state of mind. You just choose to do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Real! My roommate is super clean

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

And a dishwasher a different summer

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Shut the fuck up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

That’s so wholesome

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

It’s not that simple to everyone. It’s not an instinct that you’re just born with. How are you supposed to know what you don’t know how to do, if the people tasked with teaching you never taught you lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

cleanliness & hygiene is something that needs to be taught.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5d

sort of, a lot of things you need to figure out yourself if you were very young and not ready and it’s a lifelong matter :/ that’s my primary complaint. things like substances if someone experimenting at a young age was compromised but personally, i write what i know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5d

Especially because a lot of things you need to see done by example so you’re not just pushing dirt around. Also knowing which cleaning products can/should be used in different scenarios and which ones can’t be used together (though tbh that’s most of them and that’s a whole extra layer)

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