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Does anyone else find it draining having a roommate?
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Anonymous 20h

yeah it feels like i have to constantly mask and perform, since i dont know her very well

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Anonymous 21h

Yeah like I can even get on super well w someone but I just can’t share a living space like that 24/7

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Anonymous 20h

Yeah and she’s like bringing a boy over and never asks if i’m comfortable with it

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Anonymous 20h

Absolutely that’s why i stopped having one after freshman year

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Anonymous 19h

i cussed her out and got kicked out so maybe dont be like me and just learn to put up with it

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Anonymous 20h

Mine actually drives me nuts

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Anonymous 19h

i got my own room and am already feeling so much better

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Anonymous 7h

Mine watches YouTube Shorts without headphones on and it pisses me off so much its unbearable

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Anonymous 17h

They don’t care to keep the shared spaces clean. I hate it here sometimes but I love them as people

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Anonymous 8h

Nah they goats

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Anonymous 15h

im in a three person and we are all friends but the other two are attached at the hip and i feel so awkward all the time

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Anonymous 11h

Literally in a quad and two of my roommates pretend like we’re all friends but they definitely like each other more and exclude us other two but the other girl has more friends than me so I’m just fucked basically

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

you should bring this up to her! just like “hey, i don’t feel very comfortable with your boyfriend being over so often. in the future, can you ask me before just having him come over?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17h

if you live in a dorm, you may have a staff member (or student worker) who handles the formal side of things (my uni has required roommate agreements, which includes whether/when guests are allowed)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

yess like i want home time to be mask off time but instead it’s unrelenting agony

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