yeah it feels like i have to constantly mask and perform, since i dont know her very well
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Anonymous21h
Yeah like I can even get on super well w someone but I just can’t share a living space like that 24/7
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Anonymous20h
Yeah and she’s like bringing a boy over and never asks if i’m comfortable with it
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Anonymous20h
Absolutely that’s why i stopped having one after freshman year
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Anonymous19h
i cussed her out and got kicked out so maybe dont be like me and just learn to put up with it
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Anonymous20h
Mine actually drives me nuts
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Anonymous19h
i got my own room and am already feeling so much better
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Anonymous7h
Mine watches YouTube Shorts without headphones on and it pisses me off so much its unbearable
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Anonymous17h
They don’t care to keep the shared spaces clean. I hate it here sometimes but I love them as people
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Anonymous8h
Nah they goats
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Anonymous15h
im in a three person and we are all friends but the other two are attached at the hip and i feel so awkward all the time
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Anonymous11h
Literally in a quad and two of my roommates pretend like we’re all friends but they definitely like each other more and exclude us other two but the other girl has more friends than me so I’m just fucked basically
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Anonymous#217h
you should bring this up to her! just like “hey, i don’t feel very comfortable with your boyfriend being over so often. in the future, can you ask me before just having him come over?”
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Anonymous#817h
if you live in a dorm, you may have a staff member (or student worker) who handles the formal side of things (my uni has required roommate agreements, which includes whether/when guests are allowed)
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Anonymous#414h
yess like i want home time to be mask off time but instead it’s unrelenting agony