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Does anyone else find it draining having a roommate?
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Anonymous 7w

yeah it feels like i have to constantly mask and perform, since i dont know her very well

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah like I can even get on super well w someone but I just can’t share a living space like that 24/7

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah and she’s like bringing a boy over and never asks if i’m comfortable with it

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Anonymous 7w

Absolutely that’s why i stopped having one after freshman year

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Anonymous 7w

Mine watches YouTube Shorts without headphones on and it pisses me off so much its unbearable

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Anonymous 7w

Mine actually drives me nuts

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Anonymous 7w

i got my own room and am already feeling so much better

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Anonymous 7w

Nah they goats

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Anonymous 7w

They don’t care to keep the shared spaces clean. I hate it here sometimes but I love them as people

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Anonymous 7w

im in a three person and we are all friends but the other two are attached at the hip and i feel so awkward all the time

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Anonymous 7w

Literally in a quad and two of my roommates pretend like we’re all friends but they definitely like each other more and exclude us other two but the other girl has more friends than me so I’m just fucked basically

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Anonymous 7w

Benefits to living alone but Roomate help

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Anonymous 7w

Yes, especially if they’re dirty and loud

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

you should bring this up to her! just like “hey, i don’t feel very comfortable with your boyfriend being over so often. in the future, can you ask me before just having him come over?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

if you live in a dorm, you may have a staff member (or student worker) who handles the formal side of things (my uni has required roommate agreements, which includes whether/when guests are allowed)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

yess like i want home time to be mask off time but instead it’s unrelenting agony

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