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Neurodivergent 9w
My bf says he is “irritated” with me cuz I have low sex drive due to my antidepressants. What a weird thing to say to someone lol
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Anonymous 9w

ummm girl boy they whoever you are dump him if he’s gonna try and do that to you i’ve been on antidepressants before and i can also say yes they tanked my libido but if he’s gonna hold it over your head, you shouldn’t have to feel ashamed because of it wishing you well

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Anonymous 9w

sounds like a man who does not care about your needs & only values you based on what you offer to him

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Anonymous 9w

your lols at the end of your statements is killing me i see that ssri is working diva

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Anonymous 9w

Ew rapey

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Anonymous 9w

irritated? fuck that break up with him. feeling like y’all are sexually incompatible? sure whatever. but IRRITATED at you over a medical side effect? clearly he feels like he’s owed smth just for being with you, & there’s no use staying with a man like that

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Anonymous 9w

Hey sometimes sex is the hill some ppl die on. Maybe u guys aren’t compatible if it means a lot more to him than it does for u. Great thing to find out sooner rather than later

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Anonymous 9w

my ex used to say the same thing 🥲

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Anonymous 9w

That’s called coercion!!! There’s nothing wrong with someone not wanting tea. Break up with him please. He’s hoping you’ll give in to what he wants if you fear losing the relationship.

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Anonymous 9w

My ex used to coerce me while I was on ssri and had no sex drive 💔 his mom had the audacity to call me abusive when she raised her son to do that..

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Anonymous 9w

Sounds like a fucking rapist u need to leave…

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Anonymous 9w

Irritated is such a weird/gross word for that situation. Please don’t try to “fix” it by not taking a med that helps you. If the sexual side effects bother YOU (not just your bf), then you can talk to your prescriber about it. I had a friend who was upset about them and they added another med (Wellbutrin maybe?) to stop the sexual side effects which worked.

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Anonymous 9w

SSRIs have been known for years to kill sex drive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

He’s threatened to break up with me if I don’t “fix” the issue lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

dude what the actual fuck i’m so sorry :(. he is not worth your time and never wil be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

If he’s so insistent on somebody getting fixed, bring him down to the vet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

There’s a difference between admitting that it’s hard for him politely while saying that he still cares about you and figuring out another way to make it work (like getting toys) than the way he’s telling you that. It sounds like he values sex more than other parts of a relationship. If I were him I’d just masturbate and be ok with only occasional sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

If it still bothered me I’d figure out another way to make it work, like getting a sex doll.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Please leave him im exhausted for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

he is fully admitting to you that he’d rather you be depressed than not be able to use you for sex. the only issue that needs to be fixed is HIM bro, drop him at the nearest vet ASAP and get those balls removed before he gets the chance to ruin your life entirely. this is SUCH disgusting behavior and i really hope you are seeing these warning sirens and proceeding accordingly!

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

You’re right. This honestly reminds me of my ex who would emotionally manipulate me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

He should just get some sex toys

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Couldn’t be articulated better. Better than how I phrased it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

I don’t think it’s rapey. They’re prob just young and the guy doesn’t know how to communicate his needs

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

That’s not how needs work. Needs are something we are responsible for meeting on our own. Using someone who is not enthusiastically willing to fulfill your needs is unethical. It’s textbook coercion and it is wrong. Consider she might be young, she may be disabled, and she does not owe him sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I don’t know how to communicate my needs either, and I sure as fuck wouldn’t try to fucking force the woman I love to have sex with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Yup 12 and 6 I totally agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

i like this one LMFAO

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