i mean if you make it clear from the beginning you just want sex, it’s kinda on them if they get their feelings hurt

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You can be aromantic but not asexual at the same time. They can be separate and it’s a totally valid way of feeling. Finding people for sexual fulfillment is also valid. Hookup culture exists after all even if it’s not very safe, people still get together all the time just for the sake of pleasure. It’s valid to feel weird about it as well but it’s still normal!

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wait me to the best thing i’ve done is just found another guy who was also nd and feels the same way and we’re just fwb but not really friends like ykwim is great

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