Neurodivergent on Sidechat | one of the biggest downsides of not understanding social cues, imo, is the fact that something i just is funny to others, actually isn’t, and rather hurts them when it’s not my intention, and i won’t know until they say something.

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Neurodivergent 1w

one of the biggest downsides of not understanding social cues, imo, is the fact that something i just is funny to others, actually isn’t, and rather hurts them when it’s not my intention, and i won’t know until they say something.

Anonymous 1w

even worse when it’s my boyfriend that i accidentally hurt

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OP 1w

This is real :(

Anonymous

#1 1w

literally sobbing in the dark because a joke i made with our friends hurt his feelings and i didn’t know until he had to tell me 5 hours later. i feel like such a shitty person and an even shittier girlfriend

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OP 1w

I get that feeling but the worst thing you can do is beat yourself up about it. Ik it’s hard but the best thing you can do is apologize, tell him you love him, and make sure you don’t do it again. Trust me he won’t hold this against you if he knows it wasn’t intentional