Honestly just need people to talk to

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I’ve never been in a relationship. Sometimes I’m sad about it because I feel behind everyone else. But sometimes I’m happy because I have more time with myself. Idk it’s complicated. But I get it.

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Yeah I completely feel this I just can't get a gf and it's starting to eat me up inside

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Yep, like nobody will ever “pick” living with me, but that’s made my relationship with myself all the stronger, because I’m stuck with myself. Like I’m not hideous, but I also don’t have a 6 pack, so people just overlook me, and maybe it’s the loneliness talking, but all that is enough to survive, I got my special interests and while I wish it was more, like not a day goes by where I’m not lucky to know what I have.

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I (audhd) have dated a lot and have been around many friend groups. The guilt/shame of not being up to speed, not missing people, the cycle of needing tons of space or none at all, etc etc feels bad. I’ve found that a lot of it comes down to self love, setting boundaries and better communication. I’m bad at all of those but I can tell it’s the key on my good days.

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