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I have a bad habit of ghosting ppl when I get stressed. What do y'all say to make ppl not hate u and want to try again??
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Anonymous 3d

You should give them a headsup first that youre stressed and need some space, if youre talking to a neurodivergent person I think they will totally understand, couldnt say the name about normies though

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Anonymous 3d

Better late than never tbh— just respond when u can and let them know you’ve been really busy and stressed lately which is why you haven’t answered. That’s what I do and most people are pretty understanding and are just glad to hear from you.

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Anonymous 3d

1) let them know that this is a recurring behavior that is a response to stress 2) you're sorry you did that 3) once you're back, ask them to go hang out and make it as clear as possible that you love and adore them

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Anonymous 2d

I literally just reply when I can. This phone doesn’t control me. Those that get it will stay with me. Those that expect to have access to me 24/7 because I have a phone, will leave my life. I’m much happier with the ones that understand anyways!

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Anonymous 3d

Lemme hang around here for answers 👀

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Anonymous 3d

i do this too

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Anonymous 3d

Oh sometimes people just randomly stop talking to me, so if you did this with me I’d assume it was something you did

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Anonymous replying to -> haganshows 3d

What if it already happened?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Honestly, I have no fucking idea. I reach out to people all the time, and then when I dont, they dont either and boom I lose a possible connection. It seems like people just dont wanna be friends anymore. Id say fuck it and just hit them up, whats the worse that can happen?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Ok I’ll do that thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2d

🤝🫡🙌

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