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Any other autistics here eat with their hands? I understand it’s pretty normal in some countries but I grew up in a white family in America so it wasn’t something that we did. It’s just so much easier for me 😭 my grandmother hates it
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Anonymous 21h

i’m white and i’ve eaten a steak with my bare hands because i’m too impatient to cut meat. live your truth

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Anonymous 22h

I genuinely hate eating with my hands, to the point I’ll use a fork/spoon for some handheld foods. I also don’t like to walk/stand and eat. I hate having my hands encumbered 😭

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Anonymous 21h

The autistic in me makes me not want to eat anything without utensils. The New Yorker in me says I should walk while I eat.

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Anonymous 22h

I eat with my hands but i wash them before and after- it bothers me when food falls off the fork or a handle is digging in my fingers

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Anonymous 21h

yes i do often at home and depending on the restaurant, chop sticks are a favorite of mine if i want to be socially acceptable, i just really hate the mouth feel of metal utensils

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Anonymous 20h

I sometimes eat salad with my hands, but for anything too saucy absolutely not, hate having moisture on my hands for too long. When I have crab legs I have to stop and clean my hands every 20 mins even if I’m not done eating yet

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Anonymous 20h

i like to pretend i’m a human during primitive times that hasn’t had food in days because we had unsuccessful hunts so that when i dig into my food it tastes more rewarding

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Anonymous 16h

I’m Filipino so we learned how to eat w our hands but honestly, it’s so much easier to. I hate using utensils

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Anonymous 21h

Yeah, depends on the food and what the typical utensils are, like for some reason, my finger dexterity is horrible and I can’t manage to use chopsticks so I eat sushi by hand which is usually fine. I think just washing your hands and using sanitizer suffices, as you said, so many other cultures eat with their hands so it’s no biggie

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Anonymous 21h

i eat with all 5 fingers thank god i’m not the only one !

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Anonymous 14h

Womp womp to granny. Not your body/life

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Anonymous 20h

I mean not really- only with normal hand food like sandwiches, chicken nuggets, pizza, etc. thinking about eating other food with hands makes my skin crawl shdbebdb sauced wings are a nightmare-

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Anonymous 20h

I hate eating with my hands. Like chips I’ll obviously eat with my hands. But like sauce covered chicken wings I’ll sometimes eat with a fork and knife.

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Anonymous 20h

sometimes, but i've met people who will eat messy pasta with their hands and that upset me so much lmao

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Anonymous 20h

sometimes yes when my silverware frustrates me

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Anonymous 19h

On the contrary, my uncle eats pizza with a fork and knife

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Anonymous 19h

Personally can’t stand the feeling of dirty hands but I don’t mind eating with my hands wearing gloves. Especially Indian food, it genuinely tastes better when you do.

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Anonymous 17h

I try to use utensils properly until it comes to salad. It’s a fucking veggie tray mixed together, I’m eating it with my hands

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Anonymous 17h

I don’t like utensils

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Anonymous 16h

i loveeeee eating with my hands. as a kid i would scoop mashed potatoes with my fingers as a spoon

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Anonymous 14h

I LOVE eating with my hands istg it’s the best, I hate clean up but it’s worth it

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Anonymous 13h

I’ll eat a chicken patty with my hands

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Anonymous 11h

I’m autistic but the opposite, I hate getting food or anything on my hands

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Anonymous 8h

go to medieval times, they literally don’t even give you silverware it’s amazing

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20h

(just sometimes not always, it’s a rare occurrence)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Primal

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 19h

Surgical

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

Fuck puritan dining etiquette!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

Omg, this is such a bad habit of mine. I guess it is a New Yorker thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 13h

THAT IS SO REAL

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10h

Bro I do this too with steak, eggs, and sweet potato!

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