
Autistics have a thing with “following the rules” best way I can describe it, autistics typically have a harder time understanding/processing emotions, so they struggle with understanding why people break rules. ADHD individuals are IMO far less concerned with the rules, and frankly ADHD people tend to have less of an understanding of rules and tend to go with their own flow. AuDHD (autism & adhd) tends to look a lot more like neurotypicals, they only make snap judgements when overwhelmed.