
Two men wanted just sex after I explicitly stated I was looking for romance or friendship without the sex. (I don’t bang strangers until I’ve known them for a few months/a year) and they got mad. Third guy asked for feet pics and I just gave up on the app after that (I managed to meet my current partner off the app-) But yeah I acknowledge everyone’s experience is different so maybe you’ll find someone who doesn’t have a ten year age gap/is looking for a hookup
I used that app too! Only one person said they wanted to follow me on Instagram, and she answered everything like she was uninterested, but I thought that’s just how she talks, until one day I explicitly asked her and she confirmed. There wasn’t really anybody nearby and they were all older. I might try again at some point.