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Neurodivergent 8w
Neurodivergent folks how are we navigating crushes especially telling them how we feel because it’s driving me insane trying to figure her out
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Anonymous 8w

I told him some cool animal facts about a year ago at the zoo and it just worked

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Anonymous 8w

Same, I got this crush and I haven’t seen her since last semester but of course the crush ain’t go away

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Anonymous 8w

we're not

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Anonymous 8w

i just hope that the neurodivergent rizz works in a friends to lovers pipeline. if it doesn’t, i yearn forever

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Anonymous 8w

Hyperfixation for a few years then wake up one day feeling empty again

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Anonymous 8w

Hyperfixation for a few months and then I’m like wtf girl it’s just a person and then I lose feelings and go back to being empty 😃

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Anonymous 8w

I used to always advocate for being honest and direct with them about it, and strive to maintain a friendship even if they're uninterested, but lately I've seen that go very badly (both myself and others) so I don't really know these days. Let them make the first move, if they are at all interested is safest.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Yeah I thought about mine all summer and we are already friends and hang out and stuff but everything she does is a mixed signal to my brain and I really don’t want to make it weird but I just wanna know 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Try to hang out with her alone and see what happens, she might tell you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

We have and even did last night and we almost actually had a sleepover which she was excited for until she decided she better go to her place to sleep well for work today idk I lowkey overthink it too so I’m trying to keep how I think seperate from what actually happens too it’s just ughhh I’m sure you understand

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Just breathe she ain’t going nowhere clearly

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Anonymous 8w

You’re probably right haha I I do think I need to remind myself it’s not a race because I can already tell we are getting closer than where we were even a few weeks ago and especially from last semester

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Anonymous 8w

Thank you I’ll try my best :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

That’s so funny and relatable. Both my partner and I are ND and zoo keepers 😂 we’ve been together 2 years now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

This is my current strategy

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