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I know this is a really common neurodivergent phenomenon but I genuinely can’t not spiral when plans get cancelled. Like I completely mentally prepare for it and have a vision of how it’s gonna go and get excited and you suddenly tell me nvm? Fuck you
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Anonymous 9w

Also add being physically disabled and it being difficult and painful to get ready to go out somewhere for it to be cancelled last minute

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Anonymous 9w

Ofc yes. I’m trying my best to control that part of me and be open to flexible decisions but it lowkey kills me inside 😭 like I was asked to make a schedule for an important event and I did. Then all of sudden they wanna go off script and the vision I had planned didn’t even happen.

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Anonymous 9w

i j say fuck it cause of ppl wanted to do smth they’d show up when the time comes

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Anonymous 9w

Yes!! I hate that it bothers me so much when my plans don't happen the way I want but it genuinely ruins my day and it's frustrating when people feel like I'm overreacting

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