
as a grown woman i am QUICK to pointedly call out people’s callousness like that. “oh excuse me? what evidence within my files has lead you to that conclusion? do you have enough conclusive evidence about me, my social media use, and my experiences to determine that? hmm doesn’t sound very professional of you.” like i am seething just thinking of all the ways i could respond to that to belittle her in the same way she did to you and probably A LOT of other young people.
I’m so sorry you dealt with this! During my autism testing the guy had to kick my mom out of the room because she kept acting like I was completely neurotypical 😅 After she left and he actually got to test me I asked him and he said “well I shouldn’t tell you, your counselor should; but yeah buddy” then they LOST MY RESULTS 🫠 So the only “official” diagnosis I have is from my current counselor who in our FIRST MEETING said “well, yeah it’s kind of obvious” when I asked her if she thought I was 😂