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Finally got referred to a psychologist for autism testing and before she even did any tests/asked me any questions, she told me I only thought I had autism because it was trending on TikTok🙄 I don't even know what to do anymore
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Anonymous 1d

as a grown woman i am QUICK to pointedly call out people’s callousness like that. “oh excuse me? what evidence within my files has lead you to that conclusion? do you have enough conclusive evidence about me, my social media use, and my experiences to determine that? hmm doesn’t sound very professional of you.” like i am seething just thinking of all the ways i could respond to that to belittle her in the same way she did to you and probably A LOT of other young people.

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Anonymous 1d

Find a different psychologist, preferably one that specializes in autism or other neurodivergence.

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah, they are to be avoided. I’d even see about contacting their employer or certifying board and complaining.

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Anonymous 1d

How are you going to work in that sort of field and then act like that? Like what is wrong with people? She should lose her job.

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Anonymous 1d

I’m so sorry you dealt with this! During my autism testing the guy had to kick my mom out of the room because she kept acting like I was completely neurotypical 😅 After she left and he actually got to test me I asked him and he said “well I shouldn’t tell you, your counselor should; but yeah buddy” then they LOST MY RESULTS 🫠 So the only “official” diagnosis I have is from my current counselor who in our FIRST MEETING said “well, yeah it’s kind of obvious” when I asked her if she thought I was 😂

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Anonymous 16h

BULLSHIT!! sorry u had to go thru that! no one has the right to tell you why YOU chose to seek out a diagnosis, and if she had any sense, she’d realize that people who watch a few tiktoks and do no further research rarely attempt to seek out a proper diagnosis!

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Anonymous 1d

That’s the wrong psychologist. When I had my testing it was a neuropsychologist and all she did was test me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I hope some day I can have as much courage as you🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You will. It’ll come with age and agency. Stand tall in what you know and for what you believe in, my friend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Agreed. They should have a compliance team. Alternatively, the board can review their license and potentially revoke it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Honestly be emboldened because most of the time people can’t touch on shit like this. Same with doctors. Just because someone has a title doesn’t mean they can’t be sat down.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

*touch you on shit like this (what are they gonna do? Cry about it?)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Don’t be afraid to do this people! Future harm reduction!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I recently did this for my mom’s primary care physician because she signed her death certificate incorrectly (wrong time, wrong illnesses). She only corrected it once I involved compliance.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

People don’t want to get fired or have management on their ass for not doing their job. Who is the hospital going to save? Their ass or the employee’s? We know the answer.

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