Neurodivergent on Sidechat | I think I’m hot enough that if I wasn’t autistic and creepy and gay I could date anyone I wanted. And tbh I only recently started to think of myself as hot and it’s doing wonders for my confidence but like that’s only one piece of the pie..

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Neurodivergent 7w

I think I’m hot enough that if I wasn’t autistic and creepy and gay I could date anyone I wanted. And tbh I only recently started to think of myself as hot and it’s doing wonders for my confidence but like that’s only one piece of the pie..

Anonymous 7w

See I’m autistic and creepy and gay and I think if it weren’t for the fact that I’m a solid 3/10 in terms of looks that I’d date more.

Anonymous

#1 7w

Tbh I also thought I was a solid 4/10 until I realized it’s just the crippling dysphoria and dysmorphia and also not going outside enough

Anonymous

OP 7w

I mean yeah it is partially that and I’m working on like, at least being hot via sheer confidence but like. The social messaging around my specific body type is rather pervasive

Anonymous

#1 7w

pursuing “hot via sheer confidence” when your body type is excessively devalued & stigmatized is soooo fucking real, been there effective strategy imo, helped motivate me to experiment with my look more, got me to present myself in ways that I thought were off-limits for someone like me. turns out they weren’t actually off-limits and that’s how I leveled up