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chat how to forgive myself when i genuinely did smth wrong like all that “you did the best you could at the time” is so bs i wouldn’t say that abt someone else being evil so why would i for myself
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Anonymous 1w

you’re more than just something wrong that you did, you also do good things and that’s important too. you don’t have to pretend you didn’t do something wrong but just understand that one thing doesn’t define you more than any other one thing does

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Anonymous 1w

Because you’re not that person anymore. The fact that you regret your decision means you learned, and that’s what life’s all about. Everyone makes mistakes. Most people make some pretty bad ones tbh, ones that hurt people somehow. Do your best to make amends for what you did, aim to do better in the future, and that’s all you can do. No one’s perfect. You can’t spend all your time beating yourself up over the past.

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