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I deadass don’t know how to get over my ex. Like logically I’m over her. Emotionally and mentally I’m not. Logically, it’s been 4 years and some months. It’s been a long time. But mentally? She’s the girl from high school. She’s my one. And emotionally?
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Anonymous 1d

She had a kid w her drug dealer. He abused her. I tried to at least be a shoulder to lean on and I get the hesitation but when it comes down to it I just want her safe and I was genuinely not trying anything romantic with her. I just wanted her to have a space where she could vent or cry or do whatever she needed to. But he thinks it’s cheating. He’s cheated on her. Mind you. Like proof is there. I just want to know that her and her baby are okay. I don’t even care if we are tg or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I know for certainty I will always love and care for her. But knowing these issues have made me struggle the last couple years. I want to know SHES okay and at the same time, she’s always wanted to be a mom so I want to make sure her drama of being a mom are great, and that her baby is safe. I’m not rlly looking for advice so much as I am just looking for a place to put this all. I’ll never be allowed to be within her life if he is so I’ve accepted it. (She has contact to me if she needs —>

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Anything emergency wise. I’ll hope that if I ever get over her or not whatever; she knows she has a home here until a time comes where it’s hopefully discussed)!

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