Mental Health on Sidechat | I think I love her but I also need to be honest with myself and admit that she leaves me very sexually frustrated. She only wants to dry hump and doesn’t want actual penetrative sex and now she doesn’t even want to write smut like we used to

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Mental Health 1d

I think I love her but I also need to be honest with myself and admit that she leaves me very sexually frustrated. She only wants to dry hump and doesn’t want actual penetrative sex and now she doesn’t even want to write smut like we used to

Anonymous 1d

If you’re not willing to go along with her boundaries and if you’re not willing to do that for her then she’s not for you. If you truly loved her and wanted to be with her it wouldn’t matter to you but because you’re unhappy with what’s going on, the best thing you can do is leave before you hurt her and yourself

Anonymous 1d

I just don’t want to live in constant sexual frustration and disappointment, I don’t know what to do

Anonymous

#1 19h

you can love someone & want to be with them but also acknowledge you aren’t right for each other and can’t meet each others needs

Anonymous

OP 19h

you should talk with her about it, don’t pressure her to do things she doesn’t want to but be honest with yourself and think about whether your relationship needs are still aligned, otherwise it just fuels unsustainable expectations on both sides

Anonymous

#2 19h

like obv don’t give her an ultimatum like “do this or ill break up with you” but ask about her comfort levels and then later consider how important different aspects of a relationship are to you. it’s not fun for anyone but if sex is a large part of how you feel emotionally intimate towards someone she may just not be the right person for you even if you love her