How do people make connections so easy? I feel like people don’t like me and I wish they would tell me why; the friends I do have text each other all the time but I rarely get any texts from them. What am I doing wrong?
i feel you. i feel like my personality is too boring
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Anonymous6w
I struggle to make friends on campus too. I am lowkey cringe. But like the previous comments said you’re doing nothing wrong you just need a niche or join a club.
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Anonymous6w
Sometimes getting attached to people really easy can be a trauma response.
Just remember to give yourself some grace, and remind yourself that not everyone is meant for someone as awesome as yourself!
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Anonymous6w
i don’t think you’re doing anything wrong. you’re just not with the right ppl who appreciate you. friendships require effort for sure but it shouldn’t require you having to prove that you’re worthy of being their friend.
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Anonymous6w
A lot of the time it’s because they decided to text something silly one time and it just continued. Unfortunately if you want to have texts from people that means sending texts.