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At first I was really annoyed by someone in my php because they were constantly self deprecating, blaming anyone but themselves, and often passive aggressive for no reason. But I try to remember that I was like that at one point with my depression too
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Anonymous 17h

I still don’t really like them bc they’re constantly interrupting and talking over people even after being asked to stop by the group therapist. But I try to be more patient and let those things go when it happens. I know so much can change when you start getting the right treatment. They aren’t a bad person, they just have a lot of insecurity they need to work through.

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Anonymous 9h

Too sleepy to think of anything more insightful to say but I really love this reframing. Thanks for sharing and reminding me to find a non judgmental interpretation of behaviors that can be annoying at first

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

And I really hope they do work on their behaviors because they do care a lot about other people and they need to show the same care towards themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

i want to say it sounds like me but that was because my parents were rude asf and when u was young i had adopted their mannerisms but never realized what i was doing bc it was like second nature… idk how well this applies tho

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