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Mental Health 24w
I’m almost 20 and have never experienced love outside of family or friendship and seeing my friends go in and out of relationships so fast makes me feel like I’m unlovable bc I haven’t even kissed someone and they so easily find lovers My heart hurts
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Anonymous 24w

I’m 21 and never dated anyone while my friends are getting married. But that’s okay because I’m okay with being single if the men is not worthy of me

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Anonymous 24w

ugh i’m sorry you feel lonely…but honestly do you know how big of a blessing it will be when true love comes to you?! from a diff perspective on this, i have the opposite feelings, i wish i didn’t jump into all the things that i wish i waited for my future spouse. because after some time, the interest/excitement becomes faded because of already experiencing it AND getting heartbroken constantly. so there’s joy in waiting for when it comes. 🫶🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 24w

at least for me, but im sure this relates to others as well. but you are not unlovable or anything else, there is blessing in the waiting!!

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