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my best friend’s dad committed suicide yesterday. I found out from his ex a few months ago that at one point, he had planned on ending his life. I’m trying to stay in touch and support him as much as I can but I’m worried somehow I’m not doing enough.
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Anonymous 9w

Nothing you can do but be there. Show up and listen.

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Anonymous 9w

You doing enough is being there, and doing all that you can. I’ll keep y’all in my prayers

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Anonymous 9w

he’s usually an introverted person and doesn’t open up about his emotions much, so I’m worried that he won’t tell me even if he is in a really bad place mentally

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Anonymous 9w

One of my childhood best friend’s brother committed suicide in January 2024. She’s also an introvert and doesn’t talk to me about her feelings but me just remembering his birthday & anniversary means so much to her & her mom. Just check in is all that matters ❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 9w

Being there to listen and talk when needed makes such a huge difference

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Anonymous 9w

I’m so sorry.

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Anonymous 9w

there’s not much you can do :( my dad committed suicide among other things 3 years ago. it gets easier to carry

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Anonymous 8w

I’m so very sorry for your best friend. Don’t force him to open up if he’s not comfortable. Just be there for him. Tell him you love him and that he means so much to you. I can’t imagine what he’s feeling right now. Sadness, anger, guilt? Whatever it is, please hug him tight. Life is fragile. We’re the only ones who can make it a little better by being there for each other. 🫂😢 May his dad rest in peace.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Keep checking in anyway. Just let him know you’re there and that he doesn’t have to be alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

For real 😣❤️‍🔥

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

hi i have a lot of experience in being extremely mentally ill yet never opening up to my friends and all i want to say is just let him know that you’ll always support and be there for him. idk his exact reasons for why he doesn’t open up, but you can just let him know that you’re always able to lend an ear, whenever he’s ready.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

🫂 I’m so deeply sorry for your loss 😢

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