Anonymous #3 1d

what if it was mutual?

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Anonymous OP 1d

Whaaaattt what do you mean "mutual" how is that even...... why would you mutually be friends with someone that hurt you WTF that sounds inhumane I wouldn't want to be friends with someone that hurt me WTF

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Anonymous #3 1d

Being friends with an ex is possible, but only when the breakup was respectful, both people are fully emotionally detached, and there are clear boundaries. If there was disrespect or lingering attachment, friendship usually isn’t healthy yet.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Not for me once your done your done no buts or if if they hurt you once they will do it again and repeat the same patterns with other people

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Anonymous #3 1d

what if the roles were switched and you were the one who hurt them, but you still wanted to stay friends with them?

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Anonymous OP 1d

Even if your still friends with your ex thats a red flag honestly like your still in contact with him or her for what reason WHYYY🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 1d

I wouldn't be friends with someone I hurt that just doesn't make any sense to me

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Anonymous OP 1d

Thats like saying that your friends with someone that back stabbed you so you accept that type of behavior and still would be in contact with that person 🤷‍♀️ REALLY ????

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Anonymous #3 1d

people say that now but in the moment of the situation there’s a different story

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Anonymous #3 1d

i think it depends on how you treat your ex. if you’re treating your ex like they’re still your best friend — constantly texting, facetiming, and hanging out like before — that’s where it starts becoming a red flag. but i don’t think it’s automatically bad if you keep respectful boundaries with an ex just to keep peace. like maybe texting on birthdays or holidays, or checking in once in a while like “hope you got that job you wanted” or something simple like that.

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