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i just relapsed (with drinking and self harm) and im not ready to tell anyone yet. the guilt and regret is killing me and i feel awful. im so tired. i really tried this time.
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Anonymous 1d

It’s not your fault and healing isn’t liner. Healing from anything is never a straight line up. It’s rough and messy and that’s just how it goes. I think when you mess up it’s a nice time to look back and see how well you’ve done, then look forward to trying to do better. I haven’t checked them out but I’ve heard we’ve got some good mental health resources on campus. I know it’s not easy to take that first step but asking a friend to help you talk to the right person could help lots :D

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Anonymous 1d

Having been through the same thing this summer I know exactly how you feel. But remember that just because you made a mistake that doesn’t make you a failure and your mistakes don’t become you. You’re human. It happens. Identify what brought you to that point, make a plan for what you’ll do next time to avoid it and stick to it. Keep trying. And speaking as a recovering alcoholic just try and take it day by day. The farther ahead you look the weaker you are in the moment.

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Anonymous 19h

Regret is a terrible feeling. Everyone makes mistakes. Remember sitting in your own regret is going to make you feel worse. Get up take yourself shopping, get your comfort food, do things you enjoy and move forward. What’s done is done it’s in the past now. You got this. Shit gets tough but your stronger and your still here that is all that matters

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Anonymous 1d

You’re disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

thank you! I am thankfully in therapy currently, but I appreciate the willingness to share resources and your support. appreciate you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7h

thank you, I appreciate the support. I'm trying to think of it as a slip not a spiral, but it's hard. It feels so tempting to spiral but I'm just trying to remember my reasons not to. appreciate you and wish you the best!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7h

true, thank you for you response!

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