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Someone just pulled the “whatever it isn’t like you know what real loss is like. I lost my grandpa” card with me. Sweetheart I know losing a grandparent sucks but it’s natural this early in life. What isn’t natural is me losing my mom at 17. Stfu
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Anonymous 1w

Not to minimize loss, but losing my custodial parent I loved and depended on more than anyone else probably hurt more than the grandparent you saw 3x a year.

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Anonymous 1w

Why are we even comparing the loss? That in itself minimizes it. So stop that. As for the other person who said what they said, fuck them. Don’t listen and you grieve for your loss as you need to. There’s no reason to tell anyone who does not have the need to know. But, I am sorry for your loss.

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Anonymous 1w

You’re so kind sweetie. I would’ve punched him in the face

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