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anyone else get sad at concerts and gatherings that are supposed to be happy? i always get super lonely and depressed and go isolate. my friend says it's because i'm a cancer but... is there a cure? or is cancer just incurable in every shape and form
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Anonymous 2w

Because you’re a cancer? That doesn’t sound right. What are some of the associations or expectations you have of large gatherings? How do you think you’re supposed to perform during these gatherings? Do they trigger any feelings about yourself or other people?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i think they make me feel lonely because i expect to feel super connected to everyone and want to jump around and sing, but i never feel like it, at least not strongly. and it makes me feel like i don't know how to socialize while watching everyone else do it just fine. my ideal self is a fun hot social butterfly, and i am fun and hot, but i forget about the lack of social butterfly part and its disappointing to remember.

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