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Mental Health 1w
I get so jealous of people when they naturally light up the room or when everyone just loves them. It’s not like I want to be the center of attention, but I just wish everyone would have the same positive and loving energy towards me
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Anonymous 1w

you can make it happen. that kind of energy doesn't come naturally to most people - it's learned

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Anonymous 1w

Sometimes you have to show your worth when you walk in the room and not wait for a single person to to see you.

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Anonymous 1w

Big dick energy as soon as you put your outfit on every time.

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Anonymous 1w

I relate to this so hard

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Anonymous 1w

SO MUCH me too 😭 I just feel like it could never come that easily to me

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Anonymous 1w

Felt that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I’m sorry but that’s such horseshit 😭 People find me funny and nice and don’t specifically dislike me but they just aren’t drawn to me the way they are to some people. It’s not even related to how confident/extroverted I’m being because even in scenarios where I am comfortable enough to be like that nothing changes. The fact that I’m neurodivergent might have something to do with it (people can generally tell) but honestly I think some people are just like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i am neurodivergent tho 👁️👄👁️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

the majority of people ik who have this kinda charisma are autistic, adhd or both. oh also bipolar

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I’m the first two plus ocd and I feel like it just makes me kinda offputting. Once again it’s not that I don’t seem confident or even that people don’t like talking to me, it’s just that there’s some people who could say pretty much the same things and people just listen more and love them more. It’s like people like me just fine but no one “loves” me (“love” in the context op uses, not romantic). I’m not even really upset about it I just sometimes see those people and wish I had that

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