
I was just talking to one and he just said a lot of “you didn’t handle that situation perfectly.” And I was like ?? I know. But I did the best I could in the moment and I’ve learned. Obviously in retrospect it’s easy to see what should have happened. And it’s easy to say “this is what I would have done” when you aren’t in that situation. He also said something like “did you try to free yourself from that situation. People have fought bigger problems like sexism and slavery” like ???