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Mental Health 22w
i love the independence of being at school but i’m also so unbelievably lonely, even when i make plans im convinced they don’t really want me there and i just want to go home
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Anonymous 22w

If they didn’t want you there they’d leave and do things without you. People don’t go out of their way to join you for things if they genuinely don’t want to be there. If they’re going out of their way to be with you that means there’s something about you and your presence that they enjoy.

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