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you’re not selfish for wanting to die, even if deep down you don’t truly want to. you’ve faced harsh conditions and dealt with painful experiences that make it easy to believe that it’s a reasonable solution, when it shouldn’t be. i’m sorry you feel that.
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Anonymous 3d

Hit me like a guy punch goddamn

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Anonymous 3d

You’re not selfish for feeling that way but going through with it is cowardly and amazingly selfish. Def don’t need more weakness if you’re in a first world country but you third worlders can be depressed if you want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

i’m sorry, but for many this explanation is not only invalidating but it oversimplifies and undermines their pain. anyone can be suicidal, it’s found across geographic location, class, race,etc. it’s not reasonable to say “you’re not allowed to be depressed” bc of conditions you can’t control. i prefer arguing that staying here is a representation of someone’s insurmountable strength, courage, and patience in the face of adversity. it’s one of the toughest battles anyone has to face.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Well you’re in this state because of you, I’m fucked too but don’t look for “validation” or an excuse to stay that way. I mean it really is just a mental pattern you chose after experiencing outside stimuli. Control yourself and you’ll understand all of what you’ve said is just bullshit of a downbad ego. Grow up or don’t, we all end up in the same place. Just what do you want to do with your time here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

The problem is that some of us lose desire to do anything & slowly start losing aspects of our lives because of this. You say just do what you wanna do with your time here, but some of us feel like every day is the same. Change doesn’t come easy for everyone. And everyone has a legitimate reason why they’re blocked. The mental health problems feel physical almost. They can be very uncontrollable and even under treatment.

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