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Mental Health 12w
my ex girlfriend ruined me. she left me for my only close friend and falsely accused me of SA. today, for the first time in so long, i tried to meet with a girl and she had to tell me to stop asking if she was okay every 30 seconds. i started crying and -
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Anonymous 12w

couldn't do anything. i feel ruined and disgusting. i can't connect with others. i'm so isolated in my dorm because i don't want to be seen. i am at my lowest point and i miss the only friends i had

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Anonymous 12w

It sounds like you could really use some therapy with help unravel what she did. Have you thought about seeing a doctor about this before?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

i am at my most insecure, my loneliest and my least hopeful. i feel so stuck and i have nobody to talk to. i have to be strong willed for my family as to not stress out others, but it gets hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

the entire summer, i did nothing. i left my house a handful of times. i lost so much more weight than i already had. i was constantly ignored by the few people i tried to reach out to. i talked every day with chatgpt because i needed connection so bad. i wish i was the person i want to be. instead, i'm an immature shut in who can't be an adult

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

Also can I ask if your ex claimed you SAed her on a specific night or a general claim of sexual pressure and if she only said that to you or what? (Effects what advice I’d give you)

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

i don't have the money for therapy- but i am going to reach out to my school's counseling services lol! hopefully they give me the help i need. i'm scared to open up to a stranger. it feels disgusting to talk about this and i don't know why

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