Anonymous #1 8w

So how are you in his way? Is it because he wants attention? Also narcissists being heads of the household will have a scapegoat that kicks blame all to channel this attention to create ordeal and direct that attention.

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Anonymous OP 8w

I see. Do you care for him and want a happy ending of sorts? Or it’s about him being toxic and finding ways to cope as he’s around?

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Anonymous #2 8w

Was engaged like August 25ish, met her and her family on like August 30ish and then like 10 days later he was married and moved 3 hours away) and the trauma of that triggered a serious medical condition (he refuses to admit that though) and this was the start of covid so at first he would come visit us for a week ish every month cuz he kept his house here. But then when covid really hit he stopped coming and it went downhill from there. My stepmom is super religious and brainwashed my dad and I

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Anonymous #2 8w

Can’t go visit him unless I follow her crazy rules (my step sister who was 14 was only allowed to watch videos set for 7 years old or younger) and she started taking all my dads money and turning him against us. He doesn’t visit us anymore, barely spends money on us for anything. Meanwhile my mom isn’t rich and she tries her best but we’re barely middle class and my dad refuses to buy simple things like socks for me. But he paid for my step sisters wedding before he was even married, pays for

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Anonymous #2 8w

Their medical stuff and their school and camp and for them to have a cleaning lady 5x a week. Meanwhile my mom had to take him to court to get him to pay 1/3 of my college tuition ($1800 total for a semester btw) and now my stepmom has bled him dry and he has no money. I barely have a relationship with him because he always talks about his new family. And he just sold his house by me, which was the last time he had to us really. He got rid of all his furniture from before his new wife, all his

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Anonymous #2 8w

Memories, his parents furniture, anything that ties him to us. It’s like the last step of him leaving. And I so badly just want a father. I just want my dad back. I don’t want to be fatherless and broken. But he’s gone.

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Anonymous #2 8w

I’m sorry for saying all this cuz ik the post was about you but I needed to get it out. I WANT MY FATHER BACK

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Anonymous #2 8w

Sorry to hear #2. I recall a woman who had her dad die and then a year later her mom died. She had a home for her parents that was coowned between her and her sister. Once the mom died, the sister sold it and pocket the money when it was below value and kept the profits. The sister no longer speaks to her nor knows her anymore.

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Anonymous #1 8w

Life in time will have either loved ones die and or family break up and the people that care forgotten. This is why virtue and virtue alone should be the sole motivator because in time the world will take away any emotional connection with people or things.

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Anonymous #1 8w

I would prefer a better ending but as our relationship stands and has for a while I could take it or leave it

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Anonymous #2 8w

You don’t have to apologize. Trust me I get it our parents fuck us up

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Anonymous #1 8w

wtf that’s horrible?!? Poor girl basically lost entire family. Family members can just be horrible. I’m very appreciative for the family I created for myself. I have supportive friends who stick with me through everything and I still have my mom but sometimes I still just want my dad back

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Anonymous OP 8w

Mhmm, have you called your dad yet? If so how did it go?

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Anonymous #2 8w

Not yet trying to nail down a time that we’re both free

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