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Mental Health 2d
I moved in with my grandma she wants me to be her free caretaker while I work & got to school. She a controlling addict that treat me like a kid unless it to buy her alc. I started having melt down that I quit everything. I budget my food & she eat it 🥲
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Anonymous 2d

I scarified getting egg and bread cause I really wanted yogurt and granola while staying on budget . She ate it then said she can just pay me for it . It found this brand in a random store not close to the house . ATP I rather live on the street than with her . I don’t even leave my room . I’m this close to tell her how much I despise living with her and that why none of her grand kids hate her

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Anonymous 2d

hope you can move out, that sounds like a really shitty situation :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

bro she is abusive asf she is totally taking advantage of you, KNOWINGLY, because you’re letting her. just because she is your grandmother, doesn’t mean she can’t or won’t abuse you. this is emotional and financial abuse. please send her ass to rehab, and take care of yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I made a post of this on Reddit. I was just thinking my family bad but I was getting abused. I had to move in with grandma cause my mom is 16k in mortgage debt but doesn't work and want me to pay. Found out grandma did help pay 17k prior but grandma just bad. Grandma has no true relationship with any of her daughter and gossip about them. I don't have a job rn cause I was too much to work 6am, class and dealing with her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

She fights every day with family members. My mom isolated me from my dad's side so she and another aunt who is also not mentally ok are the only family I know nearby. I'm looking for work again so I can find a room by next year. I know she taking advantage of me. She bought me computer& steak then when I say I don't want cause she will use it against me she says she want to do something nice for me🙄. Come in my room drunk saying she want a bond. I plan to go no contact but I need to plan smart

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

is there a reason why you are isolated from your dad? do you have any friends, or people that you genuinely trust that could help you? also, make sure you are aware of any social assistive programs that are available to you, local and state level. this can include local charities and government programs. i’m very, very sorry for your living situation. that sounds extremely stressful and exhausting, and you are genuinely so strong and incredible for managing to stay in school despite all that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

My dad was in my life but he traveled a lot and finally broke things off with my mom last year cause she was not getting her life together today. The 1 cousin on my dad side I knew lived far and didnt visit anyone cause my sibling got anger problems. My mom didnt like us leaving the house other than school/ work. So I was scared of people. The few friends I do have went to college far away. I'm in my college counseling for 9 visits. FAFSA pays for my community college.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Yeah im older than I expected to live so that's a blessing

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