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Mental Health 1d
He took me on a long date to discuss what we wanted from a relationship with each other and to set communication expectations, said he values communication and honesty, seemed to want to continue talking to me…only to ghost me after we fucked. AHHHHHHH
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Anonymous 1d

Oh geez I hate this

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Anonymous 6h

That’s crazy even for me to wrap my head around. Could only imagine what it’d been like for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Tell me about it, I texted him to tell him how I felt only for him to continue not to respond HAHAHAHA I’m a fucking idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

No you’re not. He’s the idiot. It’s a lesson learned to be more particular the next time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Literally everything up to the moment I left his house after we fucked had me thinking it was going well He was inviting me to local events, making it seem like he’d text me again after I left, seemed interested in continuing a relationship with me, was extremely invested in what I had to say, seemed respectful of my boundaries, and set clear expectations with me, only to go against all of those expectations. I feel crazy for being so angry but what the hell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Be all the anger you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

I’ve been spiraling 🤪 because I have no explanation or resolution at all, I instead get to wonder if I fucked up somehow, if he’s genuinely just dealing with shit and can’t/doesn’t want to talk to because of it, or if he was genuinely playing in my face and lying the entire time just to fuck me and dip

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