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I think my old abuser has a new gf cause he’s being really nice to me (he found a new target/scapegoat)
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Anonymous 14w

Why are you still interacting with them? Just curious

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Anonymous 1w

And how is that working out for you

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Anonymous 1w

Sounds dangerous but I’m not licensed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Basically the only way to heal trauma is to revisit and then “re-file” it with better tools/ways of coping. I don’t want to risk taking my anger/unhealed parts on someone who wasn’t an active part in creating them. I don’t remember how my therapist explained what I said in a non/less shitty way than I just did but essentially I’m using him to help heal the damage he caused?

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