a text from my grandma (who enmeshed to my mom and is part of the cycle). she definitely only sent this bc my mom said something. mind you i moved out FRIDAY. does she expect daily calls? especially with the way she’s treated me?
tw: emotional neglect/abuse
my mom is enmeshed to me. she’s always seen me as apart of her rather than my own person. yet i’m a victim of emotional neglect/abuse. today i move out. she’s crying but i can’t help but not feel bad. i’m excited. i’ll breathe.
moved out months ago because of how my mother has always treated me and more. i’m obligated to give or do anything for her. we need our space and do what makes you feel comfortable. we’re free now, so don’t feel bad about that