Mental Health on Sidechat | They were willing to commit but then found out about my self hard and just the fact that I’m struggling rn turned them away and feel as if we both aren’t in a spot to grow together and work on our stuff TOGETHER. And yk what I can’t get upset

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Mental Health 5w

They were willing to commit but then found out about my self hard and just the fact that I’m struggling rn turned them away and feel as if we both aren’t in a spot to grow together and work on our stuff TOGETHER. And yk what I can’t get upset

Anonymous 5w

That’s valid but you have a right to be upset too. Just because a person is struggling doesn’t mean they’re incapable of working together with someone. I feel like some people give up too easy

Anonymous

#1 5w

Their reason is we both have a lot going on and not in a good place to have a healthy relationship but you’re right I also feel like they gave up to quickly

Anonymous

OP 5w

Yeah, there’s some things I feel need to be there in order to have a healthy relationship. I think it just depends cause some people view a “healthy” relationship as only ‘positive vibes and sunshine✨’. To me a healthy relationship is strong & able to withstand despite struggles, setbacks and the tests of time & distance. I feel like people want easy because they think that’s what healthy means..But it requires a dedication & commitment that some people just aren’t ready for. I guess he wasn’t

Anonymous

#1 5w

Thing that sucks I was actually ready for the first time in a while I didn’t want the easy way out u wanted to make it work and I was putting in the effort but like you said I guess he wasn’t

Anonymous

OP 5w

Yeah, some people can’t handle people with issues but sometimes that’s a reflection of their own incompetence. Though I can understand preferences sometimes (like if someone had a horrible experience in the past and told themselves they’d never date someone with x,y or z, etc.)