It’s hard but sometimes we just want someone to listen. That’s it. Let us say what we need to without any inputs. That goes for both men and women. Just ears. So simple but effective
Yes. I want to say what to vent and have someone vent at me in return (mutually agreed upon of course) I don’t want someone to respond to my vent with advice.
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Anonymous#110w
Yes. Something people need to understand.
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AnonymousOP10w
I need to talk through things to process them sometimes, and no one seems to get that.
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Anonymous#110w
Just to get it out of your mind. A therapist is nice, but there are some things they can’t do
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AnonymousOP10w
Yeah, only so much my therapist can do. She is great for venting, but I do wish I could do that with friends
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Anonymous#110w
I never want one. Either I talk with friends or I shut my body down
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Anonymous#110w
Just listening to Jake Hill doesn’t help either
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AnonymousOP10w
Alas my friends all drifted away for various reasons, so all I got rn is a therapist. I’ve been with her for like 6 yrs so we got good rapport
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Anonymous#110w
That’s actually really good to hear:) Just don’t shut yourself out or disassociate yourself. It’s a really bad coping mechanism
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Anonymous#110w
Not the friends thing just to make that clear
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AnonymousOP10w
Trust me, I know 😂 Been there, done that
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Anonymous#110w
Just working on myself rn so I’m ready to accept new friendships when they come my way
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Anonymous#110w
Good luck on that partner. Make some room for a relationship too