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Mental Health 13w
TW I had an abusive ex who died almost two years ago. I don’t know how to handle being older than they ever were. I hated them by the end of their life, but their death was so unexpected and it haunts me. The anniversary is coming up
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Anonymous 13w

People are incredibly complicated. It’s normal to hate someone who was wrong to you but also feel saddened by their death

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

It is really complicated because I will not pretend they were a good person, but I cry when I remember they’re gone.

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