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Men’s Mental Health 4d
i’m a gf but i’m here for advice… my bf has been through a lot he’s never fully opened up but he’ll drop things here and there but so casually… how do i bring that up out of the blue to ask if he wants to talk… i don’t want to sound pushy
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Anonymous 4d

Just go up to him and say that you love him and that I’m here if you need to talk and that your not going anywhere

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Anonymous 3d

Next time he drops some casual stuff, tell him “hey… if you ever want to talk about anything, I’m safe. And if you ever need someone to just sit with you, I’m here for that too.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

^^!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Yes exactly what I was going for on my previous comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

i pulled this last night and it seemed to be received well so yeah! i’m just hoping he does feel comfortable opening up abt it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I’m glad. Men don’t need women to fix their problems. In fact, a lot of times we don’t want you to try. What means the most is understanding and appreciation. Sometimes it’s the silent support that rings the loudest.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

unfortunately it’s something i couldn’t take away no matter how much i want but i just want him to know ill listen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Men will carry a burden their whole life without complaint if they have someone he cares about acknowledge that he has to carry it… if that makes any sense…

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