
hey man we all suffer through some kind of hell. sure we as straight white men may not be suffering through a political hell like many others unfortunately, but that certainly doesn’t nullify our own sufferings personally or struggles. it’s not pathetic one bit. ain’t no one got this figured out that well!! i don’t!! i’m struggling too! but it’s OK to struggle and that’s what’s important. give yourself some grace and be patient with yourself. it’s your first and only time here, so just live it!!