
The reason they have effective support systems and we don't is because they allowed themselves to be vulnerable and built themselves a support system where they care for each other. In contrast, men tend to close off their emotions because that's what society taught us though fear, so we don't usually produce the social conditions necessary for the kind of support we see women offer each other. If we all just support each other we create heaven on earth.
The parable of the long handled spoons is a very good way to understand this concept. Heaven and hell exist on earth under identical circumstances. Hell is the expression of greed and heaven is the expression of selflessness. When we care only for ourselves, we create hell on earth, and in contrast lifting each other up creates heaven on earth.
not a phobia. that implies fear. which is the opposite. a laughing stock if anything besides a genuine weirdo that lacks a brain. however intersex people is a fair point. the chance of them is <2% so when this comment said neither binary gender i was 98%+ positive that they weren't talking about intersex humans so 🤏🤏
It's not about being checked in on, it's about being heard when you speak on the subject of emotions. It's considered normal for women to have emotions, for men there's an unspoken standard that lingers in society and conditions men to suppress their own emotions AND each other's emotions. The first step to breaking down gender roles is acknowledging their impacts on everyone.