Good points, but again how to I make it not seem like I am desperate or nervous, and especially not come across as annoying, because often time I think I do come across that way. Annoying, or unwanted.

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But again how do you expand your opportunities without seeming desperate since they are so good at sniffing it out.

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25. I don’t go to clubs. I also have anxiety. Basically the things I am into few girls would ever be into. Finding groups with similar interests is next to impossible. Plus finding things to talk about without coming across as desperate is extremely hard.

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Plus the things I am into come across as nerdy and/or annoying. That is unless you’re considered attractive then it doesn’t matter. So clearly I am not attractive.

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History, sports, other things, but really dislike small talk because coming from me it feels forced. Also feel like I can never be myself because myself is unattractive.

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Online school, because I am struggling to find a job so had to go back to school.

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Well I have not been able to find them in my neck of the woods. And if they do exist I have not found them. And ones I am into.

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I don’t have really any close friends. Not really that are my age. The only people I would consider “close” friends are like my parents age. Other than that basically everyone I talk to is circumstantial based, and not regular at all. It’s usually only at certain times or certain events. I refer to the majority of the them as not more than acquaintances.

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Anonymous OP 69w

For example, when before I left high school in 2018 I never talked to any of my classmates outside of school.

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Same really goes to those I talked to during my previous time in school before now.

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Again the problem is nothing is ever created to become like opportunities to meet new people or more consistent people.

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At best they usually just lead to more acquaintances, not close friends or anything more.

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When I was dating my ex she was really the only person my age that I talked to on a regular basis. I met her first through high school, then again threw a job I had at the time (which I hated).

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So now really the only people I talk to on a regular basis are my parents (because I still live with them).

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Question is what do I even say to them? To girls that is.

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Anonymous OP 69w

Because for example here’s the situation I current am in. I am on a trip with a church group. And there are some pretty girls with us.

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